Email Submission: “Hi Emma! I’m a 23yo girl, and I always though my pussy was very normal; not so pretty, but normal. Then, since I was 15, I began masturbating a lot, and by that I mean like 4 times a day. Then I realized it began growing. Now I hate my pussy. It is very big and very soft :( Ugly!
My boyfriends never say anything, and I really enjoy when they are giving me oral but I’m always expecting them to say something about it. I like sex and I like how my pussy feels but not how it looks.
I know that everybody has different pussy, but mine one is the worst! I watch porn girls and they have a nice pussy! My clit is very very large, and no one has one like mine! Do men like this shape?
Thank you for all your words to all the girls here and for this site. I’m happy to found this site. xoxo”
Thanks for writing, but I have to clear up a couple of things here.
First, masturbation and sex does not affect the size of your labia. If your labia grew or changed after 15 it’s due to a hormone spurt during puberty. Not masturbation.
Second, your vulva is gorgeous. Your size, shape, coloration and texture are amazingly pretty.
Your labia minora appear to be below average size to me. I’m guessing at the widest they are 1.5 cm to 2 cm at most. The average is closer to 3 cm. Their dark outer edges and your bright pink vaginal vestible and clitoris combine to make your vulva’s coloration to be stunning. It’s so pretty.
Your clitoris as well doesn’t look large at all. Not that a smaller clit is any better or worse than large clits. All clits are amazing, and serve no other purpose than providing you with sexual pleasure. Why would you be upset with anything about is as you say, you like the feel of it?
I can guarantee you - I would bet my house on it - that millions of men all around the world would be thrilled to see, let alone be intimate, with your vulva. Seeing something as beautiful as this, and reading how badly you feel about it, really makes me so sad, and also angry that people with vulva are growing up believing they are ugly and abnormal when really they are exquisite and fantastic and desirable, sexy, unique, erotic and amazing. Just like you are. I really hope that being here will boost your self-esteem, and help lift the “veil” that’s covering your eyes so you can see what I can see - that you are BEAUTIFUL!
Beautiful pussy! Lovely dark lips.